You have your vision but what do you do when fear takes hold and you want to stay in your comfort zone?
Preeti

 Novelist and MD of Kiss the Frog, Preethi Nair shares her experience and talks to us about her next project.

 

I used to build rockets – metaphorical rockets. Some failed to launch, some exploded mid air, some lit up the sky and changed my whole world. Then, I stopped building them.

The reason was a series of events in a very short space of time: death, birth, marriage. I decided to keep myself safe. I no longer built rockets. I told myself that dreaming about the adventure was much better than the adventure itself. It was a lie. Safety kept me from risking, from disappointment, from failure.

If you are vested in your safety, you will have a heap of broken pieces with no universe to explore. Your world gets smaller and smaller and a part of you starts rusting. Eye rolling, a short breath and an inability to appreciate other rocket builders are some of the symptoms of rust.

You join the other side. You know, the ones that say it can’t be done. Nobody knows that you have joined the other side as it still all looks good on the outside.

The outside. Keeping the outside looking good requires a lot of work. Especially when you are not feeling it. Keeping the outside looking good is done for other people.

I met a 62-year-old woman whose outside was pristine. Great family, great friends, great life. For some reason, she invited me in. I mean really let me in and showed me the mess. She had hidden it from herself, from others. I sat there and listened to her tell the truth for the very first time.

The truth is amazing. It has the power to crack open any carefully constructed façade, to make you want to start again. This is what happened in our interaction. It made her want to change her life. It made me want to be braver in mine.

I wanted to share the part of her story that belongs to all of us, not just write it, but tell it, book a theatre, perform it. No idea how to do the above.

Intention is hugely underrated. Intention is everything. I set an intention to build a rocket and explore the universe and that same universe began sending me parts to build to help complete it. I’m not sure how this works, all I know is that you work diligently on building that rocket knowing that one day it will take off. It will.

If you build that rocket with conviction, the parts to finish it come faster.

Now, what I’m not sure about is if the rocket will explode mid-air or light up my world and help me see a bigger universe. It doesn’t matter. When I am 62, I want to be able to invite someone in and show them my dreams, the ones that have come to fruition and the broken ones that have made me stronger.

“Sari: the whole five yards” is performed on Thursday 15th December 14.00 at the Tristan Bates theatre.

Written and performed by Preethi Nair

Directed by Elle de Burg

Running time: Approximately 60 minutes.

Note: This is the only performance of the play in 2016.

Please contact [email protected] for tickets.

ABOUT Preethi

Preethi Nair left her job as a management consultant to set up her own publishing and PR company after her manuscript, Gypsy Masala, was rejected by most publishers. Not having the resources to rent an office and publish her book, she established a multinational in her bedroom and appointed feisty director, Pru Menon (an alter ego) to energetically hype her work. Nobody else knew of her plan. Working as several different people and with a frenetic double life (she was still putting on a suit and pretending to go to work), Preethi gained substantial press coverage. After two years and an amazing journey, her faith in her own talents and her perseverance in the face of consistent rejection were rewarded; she signed a three-book deal with HarperCollins.  Pru was shortlisted as publicist of the year.  Preethi has just completed her one woman show. She is MD of Kiss the Frog, a company that takes storytelling to organisations.

 

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