Isn’t it so funny when you reconnect with an ex? You know somehow, one way or the other, one of them just sneak right back in.. Most of the time, there’s a damn reason why an ex is an ex.. but that’s not to say that others haven’t had a great come back with their exes.. who am I to judge?!
But for me, of all the days and moments that an ex will get in touch, I surely wasn’t suspecting that this one will reach out on Valentine’s day of all days! Now as I mentioned a couple of weeks ago, I wasn’t going around with my heart in my hand last week Friday, but I surely wasn’t expecting this ex of ages to reach out me – on Valentine’s day?! Common! But he did, and there’s nothing a girl can do about it but to smile and let this one’s head roll again. And so the conversation went like this:
Ex: Happy Valentine’s Day. hope you enjoyed it!
You think? I thought to myself.
Me: Hey thank you! I’m not really a huge supporter of Val’s day and all… call me a cynic!
Ex: Why be a cynic?
I wasn’t really sure whether it was worth the effort to respond back as I just simply didn’t see the point! And here’s why – he got together with a friend after I left for uni (now that was a long time ago!); had 2 kids by her (never married her as such); he now lives in a far away country, his life probably turned out so so, and now he feels like playing! Well… So what do you think I should have said? But alas, a girl should be nothing less than classy and fabulous, so for this one, I smile at the text and say nothing thereafter. I’m open to happy relationships this year but surely, I think I could do better than this?