Spending Christmas alone might not be what you planned. But it can still be a magical time. Many people feel pressure to have the “perfect” holiday, filled with family, friends and endless festivities.
If that’s not happening for you this year, don’t worry. You can create a day that’s just as special. It’s all about shifting your mindset and embracing the opportunity to enjoy Christmas your way.
A peaceful start to the day
Christmas morning can be as slow or as lively as you want. Take your time waking up. Make yourself a delicious breakfast. Play your favourite music or watch a feel-good film. If you enjoy yoga or meditation, this is the perfect time to ease into the day. Think of it as a chance to set the tone for calm and relaxation.
Create your perfect environment
You’re in control of how your Christmas looks and feels. Light some candles. Put up decorations, even if it’s just a small tree. Wear something comfortable or dress up to feel festive. Choose activities that make you happy. It could be reading a book, going for a winter walk, or even baking a treat. Whatever feels right to you is the perfect plan.
Treat yourself
Being alone doesn’t mean you can’t indulge. Plan a meal that feels special to you. It doesn’t have to be a traditional Christmas dinner. Maybe you fancy a takeaway or a meal you’ve always wanted to cook. Don’t forget a treat for dessert. And if you enjoy a festive tipple, pour yourself your favourite drink.
Stay connected
Even if you’re spending the day solo, you don’t have to feel isolated. Schedule a call with a loved one. Send messages to friends to share some festive cheer. Social media can be a fun way to feel connected, but it’s okay to step back if it becomes overwhelming.
Reflect and recharge
Christmas alone gives you space to reflect on the year. You might want to journal or write down your hopes for the year ahead. Use the day to recharge. Enjoy the quiet moments and the freedom to do whatever feels good. Remember, it’s your day.
Takeaway
Christmas alone can be a day of peace, joy and self-care. It’s a chance to do exactly what you want, without any pressure or expectations. Whether it’s cosy pyjamas, your favourite meal or a long chat with a friend, make it your own. And above all, be kind to yourself. You deserve it.
Hosted by the Women Pivoting to Digital Taskforce in collaboration with Lloyds Banking Group, this event is for women based in Leeds who are considering a move into tech or digital roles and are interested in learning more about how to transition.
