How Will I know?! – WiseGirl Blog

In Whitney’s words, how will I know if he really loves me? Falling in Love is all bitter sweet! ### don’t trust the feeling!

They say you will have to ‘jump’, take the chance to find out. And sure you do have to. I tell you what though, it doesn’t hurt if you  know that you know that you know deep deep down that you know before you jump! Just don’t  jump (without something to hold on to) because everyone says or think that what you have with this other person makes sense!

I wish I knew all this  a few years back when long term friend became a boyfriend then a fiance, then turned 360 to be a stranger all within a year! Sad and yet funny because everyone thought  we made sense, but then deep down I knew we didn’t. And yet, I said, yes when he asked me to marry him! :(

Listen, I am not going to bore you with the sordid details but you know what, all I will say is that you gotta know!!

The externals are OK to focus on. Gosh an Adam Scott like Mr Right is not too much to ask for or is it? But an eye candy without values is no use to anyone. So what I’m saying is that it needs to go beyond the superficial.  No matter what the world says, if it doesn’t feel right, hold on tightly to your parachute! You’ll need a safe landing.

Anyways, that’s my 2 cents this week! You gotta know that you know that you know that at least, he’ll give up a ham sandwich for you in the middle of the night if you need it

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