What Does it mean to Date Successful Men

Don’t get me wrong but we all want to be with people and do life with people who are resourceful and generous. Resourceful and generous with money, time, brilliance and ambition!

But what does dating successful men really mean? After the love dust settles, you would want to know what really ticks for them and here are just a few insights we have on these guys:

  • Successful guys move and act with purpose

In as much as they appear to have fun and like having fun, everything that they do is backed with purpose! They just don’t do something for the sake of doing! Yes they don’t mind whisking you away to a swanky villa in Marbella for the weekend in their private jet, it’s not a problem for them at  all but if they’re doing that, then remember there’s always a reason to their move. It just maybe that they would like t to spend time away from the City and they need companionship or they are setting the scene to move onto the next stage in your dating relationship. In either event, be prepared! Just don’t go along on the trip  assuming he’s just being nice. He may be nice (and I hope he’s nice to you) but be prepared! If you need to trim those ‘hedges along the bikini line’ before you leave with him for example, then go get it shaped up nicely. No horrible surprises

  • They like equally smart and successful chicks

Unless they are the type who want would like to dominate and control you, all successful guys would want to know that their total wealth pool will not sink to zero when they date / partner up with you because all you would like to do is to take, take and then take some more. Apart from you being great in bed (assuming you’re at that level) and looking good on the outside, what else are you bringing to the table? It may be something very simple as you being equally ambitious or you being able to connect easily with strangers and holding a conversation on any subject in your own unique way. Whatever it is, you have to have something going for you  as well. Just looking great doesn’t not cut it. This will of course not be a problem for smart chicks! 

  • They like to feel needed

I always hear this from men (some) all the time – that men are intimidated by women who are making waves in their quarters! I totally disagree! Successful guys are attracted to women who are calling the shots in their field! Hands down! The trick here ladies, is that the successful men like any other guy, would like for you to show your vulnerable side. Yes you call the shots in the office but when you’re with him, allow him to take the steering wheel. It’s not a competition, it’s a partnership and a good one at that. Have you ever seen a burlesque performance? She is powerful, and yet playful. She has presence and yet she subtly displays a sense of vulnerability that makes a guy jump out of his skin to reach out to her. In a nut shell, she uses her inner power and display of vulnerability and translates into something that sucks a guy to feel needed – in this instance, to help her!

  • They are men after all

Yep! They are men, with red blood flooding through their veins! Therefore,  you should know that all the rules of dating applies to them too.  The fact that they are successful and may have bucket full of resources at their disposal (money, connections, good looks) doesn’t mean they won’t trip on dating etiquettes. If you give it to them on date 1, they will not say no! Just don’t play games with them, know what you’re doing!

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AWiseGirl.com was created to test out a new phenomenon!! We hear of countless stories where women (and many women around the world) go on a date, maybe once or twice…. get to know the guy and then as soon as she makes up her mind that this is the guy that she would like to have in her life… the guy suddenly turns cold towards her!!! Sounds familiar? What happened? How did this nice guy who was pursuing you countlessly suddenly turned cold the moment you started to show an interest in him? Why did he change his attitude? Why did he stopped calling, stopped texting, cancelled the date (with an excuse— I’m sick! and never called back)

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