The inner you knows more about you than you think! Some call it intuition and some, guts, but whatever we choose to call it, the inner you is really more powerful than you think. It gives you the green (or red) light on moments, people, paths, sometimes some indication on what to say and when to say it and which guy, given the options, to date!
It turned out, I went along with my guts, trusted the inner me and chose one of the guys from my last post! And that decision, led to me seeing more and more of the guy that I have more fun with! Since life happens to be shorter (most of the time) why choose someone that makes dating a chore? Right?!
After all the dates, the heartbreaks and the dark corridors of dating, I’m closing the chapter on the “search” and opening a new one. A new chapter filled with the sweet beginnings of new possibilities coming true.
They say dating and dating with a purpose have many stages. Like a seed that blossoms into a plant, relationships go through many stages. The discovery phase which is full of excitement, blossoms into a seemingly stable pace and place of serenity. At that point you feel like exhaling! A deep sense of completion comes around you; you close your eyes, let that shoulder drop from its holding place and you let that air that you’ve been holding onto so long in your lungs come out! Aaahh! It’s even more so interesting, because that completion stage is not one big swoop – there are stages in between and it’s not all clean cut! But don’t despair because nothing that is worth having is usually clean cut. And especially as it so happens, we usually do not know or can we pre define when each stage will happen or what will happen at each stage, it just have to flow. I must tell you though, that is one of the scariest (and yet exciting) thing of all in all of this! There are simply no guarantees. But, this is what I know, that sometimes, you have to jump to see the bridge ahead of you. You have to have the faith to see the possible possibilities; faith to leave behind what you and I know and have been used to (singleness) and step into a wonderful phase with someone new (relationships).
And so here it goes girls, it looks like the bench will be cleared for this one. After all the dates, the heartbreaks and the dark corridors of dating, I’m closing the chapter on the “search” and opening a new one. A new chapter filled with the sweet beginnings of new possibilities coming true. And whilst I’m discovering every inch of the new bridge which opens up to me every day as I take the walk of faith into unchartered territories with my new guy, I will be putting the final touches to the catalogue of my escapades together into a wholesome reading. You know we actually began this journey here more than 3 years ago! Wow!! The search took that long?!!! Phew!
I don’t know what the official tittle will be when it’s finished but I know it will sure help the smart single girl get more insight on sex and dating. And here’s the good part – I’ve also made the decision to let you read each chapter of my book as I write and post on singlesmartchicks.com. As always, I will love your feedback! It’s not over yet!