Sound Off – Single Guys


HiRes I’ve been chuckling at myself for being scared of coming of age! But I’ve come to realise that  one of the good things about this season in my life is that I can speak your mind, damn! I can have an opinion about a situation and sound off  the filtered version, of course ! And so when it comes to men, single guys I mean,  you would agree with me that I have gained some skin in this game enough to share my thoughts as a preamble to an update in the month of Love!

You see,  I wish all single guys who appear to be ‘all together’ really do have  it all together!  When you (single guys) approach or have the sheer pleasure of being in the presence  of smart chics like us, can I please suggest that you bear the  following in mind?

When a Smart Chic says yes to You, she’s really thought it through so…

Bear that in mind and follow through on your word. Thing is, for a wise chic to agree to a date with you, she must have thought it through real hard and mostly likely would have based her decisions on more than your looks. Aside from the butterflies that is rolling off in her tummy, she has applied the steps that she learned in the ‘Programme’ and possibly sees a future with you. Don’t get me wrong, she’s not presuming anything at this stage, she just sees you as a potential life mate! After all, she didn’t become successful by spreading her energy around, she focuses. So do bear that in mind, would you?

She cleared her busy schedule to go on that date  with you…

Therefore you have to thank your stars that she said yes! Remember she hasn’t been this successful this far by being blasé with her life. Every second of her time counts so just remember and respect that. It goes without saying that when you have her on a date, make her feel super special. Seeing the date as a task to be completed really is not attractive and we sense it when you act in that way because you appear hurried.

Follow through…

She may be on Cloud 9 with you but she’s also gone through the ‘Programme’ and knows she has to listen and observe you, even in that state. Just simple things, so when you say you will call (and really she doesn’t need you to tell her you will, Just Call) remember to follow through, even if it’s to say H.E.L.L.O!!

Just a few pointers, single guys and I’m sure the classy chics living with purpose will say……aahemmm.. Amen?!!

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About the author was created to test out a new phenomenon!! We hear of countless stories where women (and many women around the world) go on a date, maybe once or twice…. get to know the guy and then as soon as she makes up her mind that this is the guy that she would like to have in her life… the guy suddenly turns cold towards her!!! Sounds familiar? What happened? How did this nice guy who was pursuing you countlessly suddenly turned cold the moment you started to show an interest in him? Why did he change his attitude? Why did he stopped calling, stopped texting, cancelled the date (with an excuse— I’m sick! and never called back)

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