Article by Alex Fisher – Bricklayer and author of the Seadogs and Criminals series
Our minds are hardwired into a constant stream of incessant thought, with the majority of it being wasteful; it may seem an impossibility to quieten the mind and relax, but I rely on an effective way out of this rut. The answer lies within the covers – and not those covers! Although that might help to quieten the mind too. What I am talking about is the covers of books and the pages that lie between them. Studies have shown that throughout the pandemic and lockdowns, many took up books and started to find joy in reading again; in escaping the trials and tribulations of the day by slipping into the minds and stories of characters and plots. I could bombard you with statistics to impress you and show you how much reading has increased, but instead I shall discuss the benefits reading has to mental wellbeing, which, I’m sure, is more important today than ever before.
It will come as no surprise to learn that reading has an astonishing effect on the mind and body. As I said, it aids in an escape from the issues and stresses of the day as your mind focuses on other things and is exercised properly. Perhaps there is another word that works as well as escaping – recuperation. Stress management. Reading will help to reduce the high acidity of stress, will calm the mind by giving it something to focus on and play with – for, just as the body has a gym, the mind has books – so that by the time you close the book or turn off the kindle, I find I am able to handle the day better and in a much calmer way. Suddenly the problems don’t seem so overwhelming. The brain has had a chance to breathe through the imagination. It needs challenges, yes, but it also needs rest and recuperation, just as the body does. Don’t worry if you don’t have much of an imagination, everyone works in different ways, but the more you use it the stronger and sharper it will be.
Soon, with enough practice, you’ll be able to slip out and away from that rush hour tube ride, that busy morning, that ringing phone, and find yourself standing beside the protagonist following the story just as much as they are. Suddenly you’ll find yourself at a roaring party of the 1920s wondering who this strange man Jay Gatsby is, or aboard the Hispaniola sailing to find a hidden treasure under the watchful gaze of Long John Silver. Who knows, you might even find yourself next to Victor Frankenstein as he experiments with galvanism upon his creature, not entirely convinced he’s thought this all through properly. Wherever you find yourself, your mental wellbeing will benefit greatly in more ways than one. The world can wait, it will always be there, ready for you, but I believe we must make sure we are ready for it. Put ourselves first and make sure that our wellbeing is at the forefront of priorities, for if our candle is guttering out, how can it light another’s wick? We must preserve our flame first before we can share the light further.
Due to the rise in suicides, depression and anxiety, I believe more men could benefit greatly from a bit more reading. Men’s mental wellbeing is a fickle subject as traditionally men do not speak their mind and are taught to “man-up” when expressing feelings, leading them to bottle up emotions and cage the energy within, causing harmful damage to the mind and body and effecting families, work and the world surrounding. With reading, this could change. It’s hard to find the time and place, I know, but the effects are overwhelmingly positive. If it seems too big a task, start small. Find a book that interests you and aim to read 5 pages a day, then 10 pages; just to ease you into a new routine. The mind can get distracted, it will lose attention, but the more it adjusts to this new reading routine, it will learn that this book is interesting and will want to know what happens. Hopefully the story would have gripped you by then and you could finish the book. It’s a grand accomplishment to finish one, so try two. See how you get on. Engage with reading, enjoy it, and the world may seem a calmer and friendlier place to live in.
Seadogs & Criminals (books 1 and 2) by Alex Fisher are available to buy online now and in all good bookshops as ebooks and paperbacks (https://www.amazon.co.uk/Alex-Fisher/e/B09C8Z73X8)
April
23apr12:0013:00The Perfect CV Masterclass | WeAreTheCity & City CV
23/04/2025 12:00 - 13:00(GMT+01:00)
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Your CV is the passport to your professional future. The right one will bypass the technology and the initial 5-second human scan to earmark you for your target role. Isn’t that what a great CV is all about?
Writing your own CV doesn’t come naturally. Everyone benefits from fresh eyes, perspective and industry insight. Your CV must articulate your distinctive skills and attributes in a way that shows the value you bring to your future employer. With fewer open roles in the market, it’s never been more important to understand what recruiters look for in a CV, overhaul your CV and have your burning questions answered.
In this one-hour masterclass, learn CV writing tips and strategies from Victoria McLean, Founder and CEO of City CV – and a career industry expert, award winning CV writer and coach, who has helped over 20,000 candidates secure their dream role. Victoria has developed a nuanced and strategic approach, fusing market knowledge with a deep understanding of recruitment techniques to help build your brand and create a compelling CV story.
Learn how to create a strong and authentic CV which will get you noticed for the right reasons. Expertise and insider knowledge gathered from years of international CV writing and recruiting will be shared, including:
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24apr10:0010:45Menopause & Mental Health | Free Taster Session
24/04/2025 10:00 - 10:45(GMT+01:00)
Menopause can have a profound impact on mental health – but too often, this is misunderstood, overlooked, or even ignored in professional environments. While organisations are
The truth is, for many women and those experiencing menopause, symptoms can go far beyond hot flushes. Brain fog, anxiety, low mood, and sleep disruption can affect confidence, performance, and overall mental health. Without the right support in place, these challenges can lead to increased absenteeism, presenteeism, or even cause people to leave the workforce altogether.
This 45-minute session is designed to change that. It’s a practical, supportive space for managers, HR professionals and wellbeing leads to build the confidence to spot the signs, open up conversations and create a culture where no one has to suffer in silence.
Whether you’re at the beginning of this journey or looking to strengthen your organisation’s approach, this session will help you better understand the mental health impact of menopause – and empower you to respond with empathy and confidence.
You’ll walk away with:
✅ A clearer understanding of how menopause can affect mental health in the workplace
✅ Confidence to recognise when someone may be struggling – and how to offer support
✅ A simple, effective approach to starting wellbeing conversations that make a difference
DATE: Thursday 24 April 2025
TIME: 10:00 AM – 10:45 AM
This isn’t about becoming an expert – it’s about showing up, listening, and learning how to create an environment where people feel seen, heard and supported.
Because when organisations take menopause seriously, everyone benefits.
Let’s start the conversation.
29apr11:4514:00Women in Business Networking - London networking - London City
29/04/2025 11:45 - 14:00(GMT+01:00)
The Anthologist
58 Gresham Street, London, EC2V 7BB
Kick off your 2025 in style by networking with us. A fabulous mix of formal & informal networking over a facilitated business lunch
WIBN networking is here to create a platform for like-minded women, who passionately drive their business forward and collaborate with others to help them achieve success.
WIBN is a business network organisation for women business owners and employed professionals, who network each month over a facilitated business lunch. Our members support and encourage each other through collaboration and the sharing of business contacts and opportunities. The meetings are structured and effective, whilst also being supportive and friendly!
As Women Business Owners we know that one person can transform your business but think what you could achieve with a tribe of supportive and passionate business owners?? At WIBN we recognise that often women lack relevant networking opportunities simply because they network in a different way to men!
Our monthly meetings are a fabulous mix of formal and informal networking which includes your own 60 secs pitch, a focused spotlight session from a member and lunch.Our philosophy in this group is simple – No sister left behind! Come along to our WIBN group as a visitor and experience the potential to grow your business in a more productive way.
WIBN has a professional exclusivity policy so it’s one profession per group – see below * . As long as your profession is not already represented you would be welcome to visit a group twice before deciding if you want to join.
WIBN is a monthly membership group and a 12 month commitment will be required after you have visited a maximum of two times. Full details and prices will be given at the meeting.
*in the event that your profession is already represented at your chosen meeting then the organiser saves the right to propose another place or date. If we cannot relocate you then a full refund will be given.
30apr10:0016:00Women's Health Champion Course (CPD Accredited)
30/04/2025 10:00 - 16:00(GMT+01:00)
Periods, menopause,
They’re everyday realities for millions of women and they directly impact performance, engagement and retention.
But stigma, silence and a lack of knowledge mean many managers and HR professionals don’t know how to spot the signs or have the right conversations.
It’s time to change that.
Our Women’s Health Champion Training is designed to break the silence and build real, practical support in your organisation – every single day.
Delivered by two expert trainers, this engaging course covers:
✅ Menstrual health and managing period-related challenges
✅ Fertility, pregnancy, and baby loss (including returning to work)
✅ Gynaecological conditions like endometriosis, fibroids and PCOS
✅ Menopause and long-term wellbeing
✅ Practical strategies to create a truly inclusive culture
Date: Wednesday 30th April 2025
Time: 10.00am – 4.00pm
Place: Zoom
Cost: £495 per person
Or get in touch if you’d like us to create a bespoke course for your organisation.