The Flipside of Vulnerable

Anyone turning on their vulnerable side will tell you how uncomfortable that is!Option 1

So many questions go through your mind – will I be accepted or rejected? and how would I react if I am rejected? Am I making a fool out of myself? And what would the other party think of me from then on? So many questions run through our minds in these situations and it’s human isn’t it, but we can’t let the negatives and the fears of what could be hold us in our paths of glory now, could we?

Thankfully I found a way to cope with the flip slide of vulnerable! And nowadays, I tell myself that

‘ it just wasn’t meant to be’!

It’s so refreshing to look at the situation this way, isn’t it?  Which is why I wasn’t so scared to express how I felt to the mutual friend who introduced me to this Cutie from last week. Heck I’m a girl on a mission to get that rock by next year so it’s important for me to process and express these thoughts and feelings freely. As wise as he is, our mutual friend agreed to find out how Mr Cutie felt about me, which was very nice of him.. But as it has been a week now and I have received any news, not even tinkle on my iPhone, I can only assume at this point that Mr Cutie has been traumatized (hopefully not hospitalised) by the silliness of our first introduction or he’s just not interested! It’s just what it is!

The flip side of vulnerable left me deflated, as it would for anybody but only for a short while.  Let’s face it, how I choose to play next card  really depends on me. I can choose to replay the “could have beens” or I can look forward to my next date.

You know which one I’ll go for.. ;)

Love always



About the author was created to test out a new phenomenon!! We hear of countless stories where women (and many women around the world) go on a date, maybe once or twice…. get to know the guy and then as soon as she makes up her mind that this is the guy that she would like to have in her life… the guy suddenly turns cold towards her!!! Sounds familiar? What happened? How did this nice guy who was pursuing you countlessly suddenly turned cold the moment you started to show an interest in him? Why did he change his attitude? Why did he stopped calling, stopped texting, cancelled the date (with an excuse— I’m sick! and never called back)

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