We currently have 4 offices – London, LA, New York and New Jersey. We are a matchmaking agency and specialise in finding compatible life partners for successful single people all over the world. I am also a Chartered Business psychologist by background and fell into matchmaking in my mid-twenties. I’m not the obvious choice for doing what I do… I don’t come from an international background, and I don’t speak other languages. But I love people and I am hugely passionate about helping people find love! Being from Belfast, my clients seemed to like my authenticity and warmth, qualities that continue to serve me well.
I didn’t plan my career consciously. All I knew was that I wanted to work with people and do something with meaning and purpose. This led to my decision to study psychology. When I embarked upon my career as a psychologist, I had no idea that professional matchmaking even existed. Instead, I was content in pursuing a career as a business psychologist. Then one day in 2006, I stumbled across a job advert for a psychologist to join a matchmaking agency, and that was the point that changed my life forever. I moved away from conventional psychology and moved into matchmaking permanently. I worked for 5 years as a matchmaker, then one day decided to set up my own agency…and the rest is history! I can’t imagine doing anything else and love absolutely everything about my role.
I have faced huge challenges, which have led to personal and professional growth. I started my business on a shoestring, so for the first few years it felt like every month was make or break. Then, as the business became more established, I have faced problems that I never would have expected – there were times when all I wanted to do was hide under my duvet and wish all my problems away, but when you’re running a business, you don’t have that luxury. Instead, I had to become resilient and focussed no matter what challenges I faced.
Winning a series of international and national dating awards was a definite highlight and opening our first international office in New York…which I set up whilst having a newborn and toddler at home.
Without question it is the people I work with. It might sound cliché but it’s not my achievement, it’s our achievement. I have the most incredible team who all share the same vision, of striving to be the very best.
Mentoring is vital to being successful in my view. I mentor the heads of each of my offices in London, New York, and California to share my expertise and also ensure that they run their teams in line with our brand values.
I would tell my younger self to have more confidence. Imposter syndrome held me back for many years and I’ve come to realise most people experience it to some degree. Embraced in the right way, it can become a strength.
We are excited to continue our expansion not just globally but also into the digital world. The world of dating and relationships is huge and with the 30-strong team I have, we have huge potential to continue growing and helping more and more high achieving single people find true love with someone compatible.
July
10jul17:3023:00Rising Star Awards Ceremony 2025
10/07/2025 17:30 - 23:00(GMT+00:00)
The Londoner Hotel
38 Leicester Square, London, WC2H 7DX
Now in their eleventh year, the Rising Star Awards continue
Now in their eleventh year, the Rising Star Awards continue to be the first to spotlight the achievements of women below the Senior Management or Director level – showcasing the female talent pipeline and the next generation of future leaders.
The awards also recognise the efforts of senior leaders who champion gender equality and put the spotlight on a “company of the year” that actively supports its female talent pipeline above and beyond industry norms.
The team at WeAreTheCity are excited to announce that we will be holding our Rising Star awards celebration for all winners, sponsors and judges on the evening of 10 July at The Londoner, Leicester Square.
Over the course of the evening we will be networking and celebrating the achievements of all of our 2025 winners, whilst enjoying the very best in entertainment from our live singers and strictly stars. An evening not to be missed!
For more information visit: wearethecity-risingstars.com
26julAll DayTessy's Brunches Presents: Engage HER
26/07/2025 All Day(GMT+00:00)
Stanley Stephenson Lounge
Crystal Palace Football Club, Holmesdale Road, London, SE25 6PU
Engage Her – July 26, 2025 Event Summary: Engage Her is a dynamic event focused on fostering meaningful connections and building a supportive
Event Summary: Engage Her is a dynamic event focused on fostering meaningful connections and building a supportive community of women. Through interactive workshops, networking opportunities, and engaging discussions, attendees will have the chance to share experiences, learn from one another, and grow together. This event aims to create a welcoming environment where women can support each other in their personal and professional journeys.
Highlights:
• Engaging workshops and interactive sessions encouraging active participation.
• Networking opportunities to expand personal and professional connections.
• Panel discussions with industry leaders sharing insights and experiences.
• Community-building activities to foster lasting relationships.
Mark your calendars for Engage Her on July 26, 2025, a vibrant event designed to connect and inspire women. Participate in interactive workshops, network with like-minded individuals, and join discussions with industry leaders. Build meaningful relationships and grow within a supportive community. Engage Her is your opportunity to connect, learn, and thrive together. Don’t miss out—register now!
Indulge in a sumptuous spread of delicious treats crafted to tantalize your taste buds.
Tickets are available for £50 and the event is open to all women. Let’s come together and support each other as we navigate the challenges of life. We can’t wait to see you there!
Tessy’s Brunches (www.tessysbrunches) is dedicated to creating a platform where unseen women become visible through networking and mentoring opportunities. Our mission is not only about recognising women but understanding and addressing their unique challenges.
Our aims are rooted in three core principles: Empower, Engage, and Elevate. We seek to empower women by inspiring personal growth and self-discovery. We aim to engage by fostering meaningful connections and building a supportive community. Finally, we strive to elevate by enhancing professional development and personal fulfilment. Through these pillars, we are dedicated to helping women overcome barriers, realize their potential, and achieve both personal and professional success.
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