2021 sparked the great resignation where 1 in 4 people within the UK left their current workplace.According to Google trend data, the search term how to ask for a pay rise, has seen a 225.57% uplift within the last month alone (Jan 22). Such data indicates that the events of the past 18 months, along with the typical tendency to re-evaluate personal circumstances at the end of the year, has sparked the UK to take action to develop their career.
Salary is often at the centre of any career progression.
Here, Oliver Atkinson a Atkinson Chartered Accountants presents 7 things what not to say when asking for a pay rise.
Personal finances are often the biggest motivator when asking for a rise. Covid 19 has impacted much of the nation’s funds, making it appealing to ask your workplace for a pay rise. However, the health of your personal finances and the salary you receive are two separate entities. When initiating the discussion of a pay rise, do not bring up the subject of your personal finances. It’s unlikely that the decision maker will justify a pay rise with the reasoning of, ‘the employee requires additional income to accommodate their increase in rent’. Instead, ensure that the discussion is solely focussed on your contribution to the workplace and your responsibilities.
Ultimately, its wise not to present ultimatums unless you’re willing to execute them. Ultimatums can not only be perceived as aggressive but may come back to haunt you if you are forced to see them through. Of course, make plans that outline the actions you will take for the potential outcomes of the meeting, however, keep them to yourself as they may change.
Often, a hard fact to except is that the amount of time accumulated in a workplace is irrelevant to the amount of salary you receive. This is because the time accrued doesn’t represent what you have contributed towards the business itself. For instance, a person who receives the same salary but has only been within the workplace for half the time that you have may have brought more of a financial benefit, amassed a higher workload, and made double the connections. Instead of suggesting a raise based on your years of service, present all of the ‘wins’ that you have obtained throughout your employment and how these have benefited the business. Make it clear that you are loyal to the workplace with suggestions on how you can progress.
If you learn that the salaries of your colleagues are higher than yours, it’s best to refrain from comparing your skills directly to theirs. Its likely that this will be interpreted as a passive aggressive move to belittle your colleagues to elevate yourself within the business.
Of course, if you feel that your colleagues are receiving a higher wage as the result of the likes of discrimination, then discuss the matter with HR.
Evidence is a vital asset when negotiating a pay rise. Collecting stats and data on how you have surpassed what is expected of you within your role is a great way of presenting why you are deserving of a pay rise. If your actions align with your job spec only, it can be harder to negotiate a role unless you truly feel that your current salary is not a representation of the work it takes to execute your role.
Its no secret that the past 18 months have been difficult for UK businesses in every sector. Several may be experiencing the impact of covid for years to come. Remember to read the room before asking for a raise. If redundancies have been made, clients lost or sales scarce, really evaluate the position of the business before you ask of a raise.
It’s important that the conversation of a pay rise is always kept positive. If you enter talks that consist of consistent moaning, its likely to create a negative atmosphere that leads to the prospect of resigning rather than how to progress.
Ever talk of a pay rise should be positive with tangible evidence that is relevant to your role and an outline of where you see yourself within the company going forward.
November
19nov10:0013:00MenoMinds – Free Training for Women in Business | Menospace & Minds That Work
19/11/2025 10:00 - 13:00(GMT+00:00)
Introducing MenoMinds – Free Training for Women in Business We’re excited to share MenoMinds, a fully funded programme created by Menospace and
We’re excited to share MenoMinds, a fully funded programme created by Menospace and Minds That Work, supporting women in business, freelancing, or entrepreneurship through the emotional and mental challenges of menopause.
Wednesday 19th November | 10:00am – 1:00pm (UK)
Live on Zoom | 💷 Free (funded by NEBOSH’s Social Purpose Programme)
Menopause can affect confidence, focus and wellbeing — MenoMinds helps you take back control with practical tools and a supportive community.
You’ll explore the CARE Framework:
Includes a digital workbook and invitation to monthly community groups on sleep, nutrition and stress management.
Freelancers, entrepreneurs, and women in small or micro-businesses (under 50 employees).
Facilitators: Haley White (Menospace) and Victoria Brookbank (Minds That Work)
19nov12:3018:00Masculinity in the Workplace - 2025 (Hybrid)
19/11/2025 12:30 - 18:00(GMT+00:00)
Conway Hall
25 Red Lion Square, London, WC1R 4RL
Brought to you by Token Man and The Hobbs Consultancy. Welcome to Masculinity in the Workplace, designed specifically to

Welcome to Masculinity in the Workplace, designed specifically to engage men with creating inclusive cultures. Marking International Men’s Day, the objective of our event is to give men both the reason and the skills to lean into the conversation, while also providing women and non-binary people with the confidence to engage more men in culture change. Because ultimately we can only make real change by working together.
Date: Weds Nov 19 2025
Time: 12.30pm to 6pm
Location: Conway Hall, 25 Red Lion Square, London, WC1R 4RL
Our speakers will share their insights and experiences, shedding light on the evolving dynamics of masculinity, leadership and culturein diverse work environments. You’ll have the chance to ask questions, participate in interactive sessions, and network with like-minded professionals.
The theme for this year is ‘Supporting Boys to Men to Role Models’. This year’s event will seek to understand the concerns and barriers that are in the way for boys and men, particularly looking at key inflection points in their lives. It will equip parents, leaders, friends and persons of significance in the lives of young men with the tools for self-reflection, effective role modelling and courageous conversations..
It will suggest that status-seeking and risk-taking behaviours are innate as boys become men, look at how this shows up for boys in 2025 and question what support could help these boys have a more positive initiation in to adulthood so that they are ready for the workplace. We know that there is a reverse gender pay gap and that schools aren’t preparing students in the same way to enter the professional workplace – what needs to be done?
We will look at the behaviours that are role modelled by men once they are in the workplace. Is it healthy for us to look for male role models, or is a search for positive behaviours more effective? What can we learn from how men are represented on screen and in the media? And what can we do to support our men once they are in the workplace?
This site is for the in-person experience. Otherwise you can register for the online version here.
FYI – lunch will not be provided

This event is for anyone passionate about creating more inclusive, equitable, diverse and human workplaces, and we welcome attendees of all identities and expressions.
Historically, our audience has included around 60% men and 40% women or non-binary people, with a wide range of roles and lived experiences.
This year, we’re especially keen to welcome CEOs, HRDs, CMOs, Inclusion & Diversity leaders, People & Culture teams, and anyone working to engage men more effectively in their organisations. Whether you’re a parent, people manager, or someone invested in systemic culture change, this event is for you.
By attending, you’ll be joining a growing community of people committed to reshaping masculinity, unlocking allyship, and building workplace cultures where everyone can thrive – from boys and young men to senior leaders and everyone in between.
Receive a 50% discount on an in person and virtual ticket below.
20novAll DayDigital Transformation Conference
20/11/2025 All Day(GMT+00:00)
Mercure London Earls Court
London
Ready to transform your business in the digital age? The upcoming Digital Transformation Conference UK promises an exceptional opportunity for leaders who want to accelerate change, embrace innovation and shape
Explore how industry leaders are redefining digital and business transformation. Learn proven strategies, gain fresh perspectives, and connect with peers shaping the future of technology and enterprise. Tactical & practical content to drive your transformation efforts.
Throughout the day, delegates can look forward to a diverse programme of content exploring every aspect of digital transformation, business change, and innovation. Hear best practices, lessons learned, and insights into real-world challenges from leaders driving progress across digital, technology and IT.
If you’re a C-suite leader, head of innovation, transformation or IT, this is the place to be. Whether you’re just starting your journey or looking to scale up, you’ll leave with fresh ideas, new contacts and a renewed sense of direction.
