Article by Estelle Keeber, founder of Immortal Monkey
We all know how overwhelming and mood draining social media can be. Whether its overwhelm from trying to post or Instagram posts that make you feel pretty negative about yourself or your business growth. We cant help but compare, its in our nature and with Instagram marketing being one of the easiest ways to reach your audience how do you find the balance?
1 – Get rid of any accounts that don’t make you feel good! Go through your followers and unfollow any accounts that you no longer feel aligned with. Maybe your tastes have changed, maybe the account has changed paths. Whatever your reason…if they don’t make you feel good unfollow the account.
2 – Go and connect with the accounts you love. The more you engage with account the more of their content you will see in your news feed…so if you like a post, let the account know, tell them why in the comments, let them know you agree…or disagree…but do take the time to comment. This shows Instagram that you enjoy the content and by doing this Instagram will start to show you more of the content you want to see and less of the content you don’t.
3 – Share! There is no easier way to pass around the positivity than to share. If you find a post that is inspiring, uplifting or super valuable, share it. Main feed…share it! Stories…share it! DM…share it! If you find an account that really makes you laugh or that shares great memes…let someone else know too. We created a template for you guys to use to share your favourite 3 accounts…so far they have gone down a storm and I’ve found some amazing new accounts to follow!
4 – Limit your time on Instagram. Instagram have been working hard behind the scenes to help all users have a more positive experience. In 2021, they introduced Daily Limits. A really easy way that you can track the time you spend on Instagram and even get a reminder to take breaks. Once you set your daily limit you will then get a notification that your close to your daily limit.
So there are just 4 of my top tips for making Instagram a more positive place for you to be and remember that if you are not feeling the love on Instagram there are lots of ways to report unwanted attention. Restrict, block and report. Are the easiest ways. Make sure that you are making Instagram aware of any issue you are having by reporting fake or spam accounts.
Should you ever receive unsolicited comments you can simply swipe left on the comment to be given the option to report and block.
Did you know that you can also restrict certain words from showing up on your feed? Go to privacy and then hidden words. Enter the words that you want to remain hidden and voila! This also works well with the spammy “you have won an iphone comments”.

December
06dec(dec 6)11:0007(dec 7)17:00Black Culture Market - Christmas Market
06/12/2025 11:00 - 07/12/2025 17:00(GMT+00:00)
Department Store,
248 Ferndale Road, Brixton, London, SW9 8FR
Celebrating African and Caribbean Culture & Commerce Black Culture Market supports emerging entrepreneurs & new black businesses of African & Caribbean descent with opportunities to showcase and sell their products in
Black Culture Market supports emerging entrepreneurs & new black businesses of African & Caribbean descent with opportunities to showcase and sell their products in the retail industry. We achieve this by curating and hosting exclusive Black Market events in a variety of iconic venues across London and beyond.
We exist to:
Our next event taking place over two days in the heart of Brixton offers a diverse, quality shopping and cultural experience celebrating producers of the African & Caribbean community. If you’re looking for gifts, cards, unique prints, jewellery, male grooming kits, skincare, clothes or other original accessories come down! This market truly embodies the community’s spirit as well as supports black businesses.
Sat, 6th and Sun, 7th December 2025, Brixton – 11:00 – 17:00 both days
Please join us for an inspiring showcase of carefully selected black businesses in December 2025. This is an indoor, face-to-face event that supports emerging entrepreneurs & new black businesses of African & Caribbean descent with retail opportunities.
Our next event taking place over two days in the heart of Brixton offers a diverse, quality shopping and cultural experience celebrating producers of the African & Caribbean community.
If you’re looking for gifts, cards, unique prints, jewellery, male grooming kits, skincare, clothes or other original accessories come down! This market truly embodies the community’s spirit as well as supports black businesses.
🗓️ Sat 6th & Sun 7th December 2025
🛍 40+ traders
🌯 Tasty food & cakes
👗 Fantastic fashion
🎁 Beautiful gifts
📖 Books
🧴 Natural Skincare
🧸 Toys and Educational products
🎨 African Art
🎄 Christmas Market
🕚 11am-5pm (both days)
📍Downstairs at The Department Store, Brixton, SW9 8FR
08dec10:0015:00London Christmas Job Fair
08/12/2025 10:00 - 15:00(GMT+00:00)
The Great Hall,
Kensington Town Hall, Hornton Street London W8 7NX
London Christmas Job Fair at Kensington Town Hall. Come and meet employers with vacancies for 2026 in a variety of sectors at all levels. Looking for a job or thinking about
Looking for a job or thinking about retraining next year. The London Christmas Job Fair at Kensington Town Hall on 8 December 2025 could be just what you need. With employers from across London covering a wide range of sectors and levels, there will be real vacancies for 2026 waiting for you.
You can meet employers face to face and explore full time, part time and temporary roles. Training providers will also be there to talk about fully funded courses if you are considering a new direction or want to build on the skills you already have. It is a useful event for anyone switching sectors, starting out or simply searching for something fresh.
Attending a job fair gives you more than a list of openings. You have the chance to speak directly with people who make hiring decisions which helps you understand what employers are looking for and how you can stand out. It is also a good way to grow your confidence through real conversations rather than relying only on online applications. You can ask questions, listen to advice and get a better sense of what different companies offer.
If you want to begin 2026 with new options this fair is a simple way to open a few doors. Prepare a short introduction about yourself and bring a paper copy of your CV so you feel ready to talk about your experience. A relaxed conversation with the right employer can lead to opportunities that may not appear on job boards.
With a mix of roles, training routes and friendly exhibitors under one roof this event gives you a practical way to move forward before the new year begins.
We advertise events hosted by external organisers. dates, times, speakers and venues may change. events may be postponed or cancelled. always confirm details with the organiser before making plans. tickets, payments and refunds are the organiser’s responsibility. WeAreTheCity does not accept liability for any loss arising from changes or cancellations.
10/12/2025 10:00 - 13:00(GMT+00:00)
Introducing MenoMinds – Free Training for Women in Business We’re excited to share MenoMinds, a fully funded programme created by Menospace and
We’re excited to share MenoMinds, a fully funded programme created by Menospace and Minds That Work, supporting women in business, freelancing, or entrepreneurship through the emotional and mental challenges of menopause.
Wednesday 10 December | 10:00am – 1:00pm (UK)
Live on Zoom | 💷 Free (funded by NEBOSH’s Social Purpose Programme)
Menopause can affect confidence, focus and wellbeing — MenoMinds helps you take back control with practical tools and a supportive community.
You’ll explore the CARE Framework:
Includes a digital workbook and invitation to monthly community groups on sleep, nutrition and stress management.
Freelancers, entrepreneurs, and women in small or micro-businesses (under 50 employees).
Facilitators: Haley White (Menospace) and Victoria Brookbank (Minds That Work)
13dec10:0017:00Pop-Ups for Women Entrepreneurs
13/12/2025 10:00 - 17:00(GMT+00:00)
The Wellness Centre Croydon
The Whitgift shopping centre, #1st Croydon, CR0 1LP
Support Local. Empower Women. Discover Something New. Join us for an inspiring pop-up event celebrating women entrepreneurs! Support Local. Empower Women. Discover Something New. Join us for an
Support Local. Empower Women. Discover Something New.
Join us for an inspiring pop-up event celebrating women entrepreneurs and their incredible businesses! From handmade goods and fashion to skincare, art, wellness products, and more—this event is all about community, creativity, and connection.
Meet the amazing women behind your favorite local brands, enjoy one-of-a-kind finds, and support small businesses that make a big impact. Whether you’re shopping for yourself or grabbing gifts for others, your support helps fuel dreams and build a more inclusive economy.
What to Expect:
Let’s show up, shop small, and lift each other up.
Every purchase you make is a powerful act of support.
RSVP now—let’s make this a celebration to remember!
We advertise events hosted by external organisers. dates, times, speakers and venues may change. events may be postponed or cancelled. always confirm details with the organiser before making plans. tickets, payments and refunds are the organiser’s responsibility. WeAreTheCity does not accept liability for any loss arising from changes or cancellations.
