
Article by Wendy Bennett, customer service director, DMA Group
There are so many variables and moving parts, and if a silver bullet-style piece of advice existed we would be working against a drastically different backdrop today.
It must be said that during my career of 30 years some promising strides have been made in terms of female participation in the engineering sector. But when it comes to senior positions, the figures still make for pretty depressing reading – of all the chief executives in the FTSE 350, just 13 are women.
I’ve worked in predominantly male environments for most of my 30 working years, and the greatest challenge I have faced is overcoming bias against women.
I will never forget the early days when I worked as the first female on a helpdesk for a company, mainly because I lost count of the times a plumber would call and ask to speak to someone technical even though I had introduced myself and my role.
This pattern has repeated itself at times in senior roles. Challenging or inquisitive female minds are all too often seen as threatening or even ‘difficult’, yet the same behaviour in male peers is often praised.
Fortunately, I have also been able to work with some truly inspiring and exceptional individuals who have recognised the value of gender diversity on merit. It is this that has enabled me to develop and progress my career – a career which I have always wanted to be judged on my abilities and not my gender.
This leads me to my ‘advice’ that I want to offer to other aspiring women: Confidence, and being able to express confidence in your own abilities, is the key to advancing your career.
It is actually one of my early regrets. I wish I had the confidence I have today when I was younger, the belief that I am equal and do not need to compromise just to fit in.
This is even more important for the young women looking to make their mark in 2022, especially given the saturated social media world we live in where the ‘image is everything’ mindset carries such huge potential to diminish confidence in who we are.
Instead, we should celebrate what traits we can bring to the world of business. On the isolated occasions when I have worked alongside other female senior executives, I have found that women share some similar traits that add real value. For instance, the ability to cut through the noise and get to the core of the issue or task are similarities high performing women share. Often this leads to a different perspective being offered, a challenging mindset that with positive collaboration enables business to be conducted both quicker and smarter. Indeed, positive is a critical word, and gender balanced boardrooms are far more likely to operate in harmony as opposed to tension and discord.
Women need the confidence to realise the value of these traits and make a positive case for being elevated into senior positions. Though I lacked some of that confidence early on in my career, it has built up over time and mentorship has played its part in that. I’ve been fortunate enough to have had a number of different mentors who have supported me during various points in my career – try to pair yourself with a diverse set of advisers as they will each have something different to offer.
Paid coaching courses are another form of mentorship that I have found illuminating. One of the most valuable things I gained through two years of monthly sessions was the ability to network at the top level, to communicate and nail that elevator speech. That’s something I’ve definitely had to learn.
However, not everyone is going to be fortunate enough to benefit from paid mentorship at their companies. So, key to making the most out of mentoring is identifying somebody you respect, somebody you think you can learn from but who you can also trust to be honest with you.
Women need to be working in a world where talent and skill are the basis for reward and recognition. Arbitrary gender diversity quotas will not solve the problem.
If more women can have their confidence unlocked, through mentors or otherwise, I believe we will continue to see more female senior leaders thrive on merit, not just in our industry, but across all corners of the economy.
October
01nov09:0016:30KIN: Know. Inspire. Navigate | A Day for Women to Realign, Renew, and Rise
01/11/2025 09:00 - 16:30(GMT+00:00)
Henley Business School, Greenlands
Henley-on-Thames, RG9 3AU
Set on the tranquil banks of the River Thames, Henley’s historic Greenlands campus offers the perfect backdrop for a day of reflection, connection, and
Designed for early to mid-career women across industries who want practical tools they can use immediately, this one-day retreat follows the Kinspace KIN framework – Know, Inspire, Navigate – guiding you to:
This is not just a feel-good day. It’s sustainable learning – you will leave with your own action and implementation plan tailored to your life, so you can apply what you’ve learned immediately and keep building momentum long after the retreat.
In the afternoon, slow down and reconnect with your senses in a mindful pressed flower card crafting, writing to self and picture workshop. We’ll ask a few questions ahead of time so we can pair you by goals and stage, and tailor examples to your context. Then, step outdoors for a unique partner reflection in nature – partnering with both the landscape and each other to inspire deeper insight and grounded action.
To help you stay accountable and supported, you’ll have the option to join three monthly follow-up group sessions (at a separate price) designed to check in on your progress, troubleshoot challenges, and keep you moving towards your goals.
This is a confidential and supportive space with limited seats to ensure meaningful connection and participation.
Date: Saturday 1 November 2025
Time: 9:00 AM -4:30 PMT
Location: Henley Business School, Greenlands Henley-on-Thames
RG9 3AU
Price: £250 – Early Bird £200 until 10 September
01nov10:0018:30The ADHD & Women Summit - London | Seed Talks
01/11/2025 10:00 - 18:30(GMT+00:00)
Woolwich Works
11 No 1 Street London SE18 6HD
A one-day series of talks and workshops from world-leading experts. Learn about ADHD and the distinct ways women
Learn about ADHD and the distinct ways women experience it from leading experts at this groundbreaking conference.
Research shows that in childhood, boys are diagnosed with ADHD 3-4 times more than girls. By adulthood, the ratio evens out to nearly 1:1 highlighting how girls and women with ADHD are often misdiagnosed and misunderstood in the medical framework.
With increased diagnoses and growing strains on the NHS and other support services, the ADHD & Women Summit aims to increase awareness and knowledge on the specific issues women with ADHD face.
This will be Seed Talks’ largest event to date, with our best speakers, most engaging workshops and favourite partners all in one space.
👭 Connect and network with like-minded individuals
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🎓 Hear from leading experts – including those with lived experience and those working in the field
👩🏫 Immerse yourself in a full day of talks and workshops
